For many the issue of having a partner happens to be a very valid and almost universal desire to be a matter almost of life or social death and even emotional. That Noos account relationship expert at Match.com Mario War.
Among the famous “biological clock”, the pressures of family and to one’s beliefs, many people become old they feel his best years will escape or outright that “the train is leaving them.”
Actually everything will depend heavily on the goal you have and if that is truly having a partner. Clearly, to increase the possibility of having children or healthy pregnancies there are recommended ages.
Some people are very concerned about the “what say” or some even distress to the family pressures The fact is that the paradox is great “and when do we married?”; that is, they feel desperate but want to hide not to be. I will not tell you how to make it not them note despair, let’s talk about what causes them and how to feel more relaxed to act naturally in the pursuit of love
-. First, if you’re worried about the biological clock in terms of reproduction, then perhaps you are not looking to have a partner, but having a child and family or start your dreams. I know that family is included in the pair, but if we’re honest it’s not your main goal. It’s like trying to walk home and looking at pictures. Obvious that you’ll need, but not everything you have in mind. There are ways to mitigate the anguish. You can have a child now and a couple then you can see the possibility of freezing eggs or sperm for the future or even think about whether this “itching” to have children is more an impulse, an obsession since childhood or conscious desire because you feel that you are ready to exercise properly healed and parenthood.
It would be unfortunate to relate to someone just to use him in this regard. Nor is it pleasant to think about the life of a child about parents who end up not getting along. That better not have them or assume you want to be a single parent without ruining anyone’s life. A healthy relationship is not necessarily linked to reproduction and vice versa.
– If you are overwhelmed family or social pressures, because you are now entering the age of “quedados” I understand that this can be very strong. The need to belong, parental voices and common sense make a cocktail that feeds our inner voices telling us unceasingly “you are running late!”, “You are staying alone / a”. This increases when our friends of the same age start to have a partner or get married and we do not. Wedding after wedding as guests and anything that comes our time. In this case he thinks there’s no way to please people. If you are single “Have it”; if you “why this”; if you finish, “why should it was so good” or “Good, because I never liked to you.” If you have another “Why so soon?” If not, “and get over it.” No form with them. I think it’s important to listen to the opinions and views of family and friends, but in the end, must be you who decides the course of his life. Remember. Others think, you decide
If you feel in despair do desperate things like returning again and again to relationships that do not work, become very complacent, pray to your friends introduced to whoever This does not put you in a position to choose, but you choose, or even, as I said, to have a baby so as not to stay alone. It is time to listen to your head and not just emotions.
- Increase your chances.
- Find meet new people. If you’re using the same old friends in places of always complicates achieving this goal. You do not have to get rid of any friendship if you want; what I mean is that we must add new relationships in your life to have more options.
- By the way, the cliché of going to a museum to dating, that’s a desperate act. People go to the museum to see what’s in the museum. And if you find someone who walks meet people in a place like this, it is best to run away. Security is so desperate like you.
- Do not go hunting
- Input start meeting people with friendly purposes is a very good idea. Talks, question and account. If your mind is the idea of friendship, rather than love, you will feel lighter to not feel under pressure to act “c orrectamente” can always maintain friendship relationship only if that person you do not like so much and can compare between several candidates without a commitment at this time.
- Simplify
- When looking couple, mentally we have a set of standards and requirements in an ideal or idealized person. Then, if this fails, we go removing attributes that list. having started with a “handsome, intelligent, funny and true” you end up with a simple “who ignore me.”
- Instead of a long list of requirements for your matchmaking, think what they are 5 things I like about you. Write them, arrange them in order of importance and ready. There you have a very good guide to what attributes to look for in someone to relate to.
- Attentive but relaxed
- Find partner does not imply a policy of open borders to enter anyone, but a system flexible but always alert customs. Do not reveal too much of you in the first conversations, find out more about the person, for example through their social networks do not allow disrespect or manipulations of any kind, but be open enough to allow you to look at the other objectively. Without idealizing without rigid judgments
- Multiply your options.
- Use the advances in your favor. If you are a busy and with little opportunity to socialize person, you can try on a specialized site like match.com adults in those places as you seek a stable relationship like you. Apply the above rules and start meeting new people. Sure, this does not recommend you do it in open networks or sites Anonymous meeting as forums or objectionable sites. Remember that your safety comes first.
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